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Stamford, Fairfield Co., CT

Bates Cemeteries 1 & 2, Darien,CT  

These records have been contributed by Fairfield County, CT researcher Barbara Kaye. The data has been collected from several sources, including the Hale Cemetery Collection (see history, below).

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The Charles R. Hale Collection of Headstone Inscriptions resides at the Connecticut State Library. Charles Hale was a member of the Sons of Union Veterans of the Civil War. In 1916, he became involved in locating and decorating the graves of Revolutionary and Civil War veterans in his home town of Rocky Hill. In order to make it easier to find these graves, he decided to record each veteran's name, date of death and military service. He was persuaded by State Librarian George S. Godard to search also for veterans of other wars.

In 1919, the General Assembly made an appropriation to carry on this work throughout the State. In 1933 and 1934, with grants from the F.E.R.A. and the W.P.A., Mr. Hale began copying and indexing the essential information from every headstone in the State. Two copies of these listings were deposited in the State Library. Records for individual towns were made available to libraries and historical societies throughout Connecticut.

Note:
These records may contain errors in dates or names. Some errors were made either at the time of the survey of the cemeteries or during the transcription in 1935. One common error in reading old headstones is mistaking a four for a one. We have tried very hard to avoid creating new errors during the retyping of this data for the internet. In addition, we have attempted to correct some of the original errors, either by revisiting these cemeteries or by recalculating dates or ages based on known dates of birth for some of these people. However, some of the stones that were legible in 1934 are either missing or no longer legible.

I have also attempted to identify these people, using census and other vital records. Anything added within brackets like these [  ] indicates a suggestion as to the identity of the person.  If a wife's name does not include a separate surname, it is not known at this time. Many couples in early Darien were second or third cousins withthe same surname.There are many surnames that have several alternate spellings. (See spellings for a list of common surnames and their alternate spellings.)  Some people appear in more than one listing because some graves were moved to newer cemeteries, new stones were carved, and the old stones were left behind. Although much of the data on the various families in early Darien  is accurate, there will always be errors, many of which are found in published genealogies. It is recommended that you write to the Town Clerk's office for death or birth certificates for your ancestors. If you have documentation that supplies any missing information or corrects an error, please email Barbara Kaye .


Bates Cemetery #1 - 405-4
        South of the Post Road across from Birch Road,
        Near 320-330 Boston Post Road, which is
        near Exit 13 of I-95, Darien, CT

8594   Whitney, Lavinia Nichols, wife of Horace, born Dec. 7, 1843, died Nov. 23, 1894.
            Whitney, Henrietta May, died Feb. 3, 1879, age 6 yrs. 16 days.
                     [daughter of Horace Whitney & Lavinia Nichols]
            Whitney, Arthur Clayton, died Nov. 4, 1881, age 12 yrs. 4 mos. 3 days.
                     [son of Horace Whitney & Lavinia Nichols]
8542   Whitney, Charles E.,[Edwin] died Jan. 13, 1892, age 85 yrs. 11 mos. 10 days.
                     [son of Josiah Whitney & Mary Smith]
            Whitney, Rosanna Mather, wife of Charles, died May 6, 1905, age 96 yrs. 8 mos. 3                      days.  [daughter of Moses Mather & Sally Bishop]
            Whitney, Sarah M., daughter of Charles E. & Rosanna, born Feb. 28, 1848, died
            Oct. 16, 1896.

            Whitney, William M., 1st. Lieut. Co. C., 28th Regt. Conn. Vols., born 1834, died
            1901. Flag.
[son of Charles E. Whitney & Rosanna Mather]
            Page, Lewis Cass, son of Edward O. & Harriet A. [Webb], died Oct. 9, 1852, age 4
            yrs. 1 mo. 22 days.

            McKenzie, William, died Nov 11, 1878, age 83 yrs. 9 mos. 3 days.
                      [born in New Jersey]

8539   Waterbury, Bethiah, born Oct. 9, 1770, died Jan. 22, 1842.
                      [daughter of Benjamin Waterbury and Abigail Sherwood]
8538   Johnson, Almira Louisa, daughter of Elias & Harriet, died July 12, 1845, age 3 yrs.
            10 mos. 26 days.

            Waterbury, Hannah, died Nov. 9, 1878, age 86 yrs. 1 mo. 12 days.
            Waterbury, Anson, died Mar. 30, 1861, age 66 yrs. 5 mos. 16 day.
            Waterbury, Alva, died Apr. 4, 1857, age 62 yrs. 5 mos. 16 days.
8549   Davies, Angelina, daughter of Luke & Luezzer, died Apr. 1, 1850, age 4 mos.
            30 days.

            Davies, Luke, died Jan 19, 1862, age 47 yrs. 10 mos. 8 days.
            Davies, Luezzer, wife of Luke, died Mar. 20, 1897, age 55 yrs. 3 mos.
            Davies, Isabella, daughter of Luke & Luezzer, died Nov. 1, 1862, age 26 yrs.
            3 mos. 25 days.

8551   Mills, Amelia, daughter of William & Rosenna, died Aug. 30, 1848, age 2 yrs.
            2 mos. 5 days.

            Waterbury, James H., son of Charles & Caroline, died Feb. 24, 1846, age 7 mos.
            5 days.

8550   Shelden, Martha M., widow of John, died Dec. 16, 1845, age 37 yrs.
8591   Maynard, Frances, daughter of Elric & Olive, died Apr. 17, 1836, age 1 yr. 7 mos.
8554   Raymond, Selleck, grandson of Samuel & Rachel, died Dec. 4, 1834, age 3 yrs.
            7 mos. 10 days.

8553   Whitney, Sarah Amelia, daughter of Eliasaph & Angeline, died Apr. 12, 1832, age 3                 yrs. & 10 mos.
8555   Waterbury, Harriet Augusta, daughter of Andrew & Nancy K., died Oct. 5, 1843,
             age 2 yrs.

            McIntyre, Jenett, died Feb. 18, 1854, age 25 yrs. 9 mos. 24 days.
8557   Whitney, Emily Augusta, daughter of Walter & Caroline, born Dec. 6, 1827, died
            Oct. 8, 1852.

8556   Whitney, Francis N., son of Walter & Caroline, born Feb. 9, 1830, died Feb. 9, 1877.
            Whitney, Caroline, wife of Walter, born July 12, 1805, died Feb. 9, 1875.
                      [Caroline Matilda Disbrow, daughter of John Disbrow & Priscilla Mallory]
            Whitney, Walter, born
            Disbrow, Priscilla, died Mar. 12, 1852, age _6 yrs. 6 mos.
                      [probably Priscilla Mallory, wife of John Disbrow]
            Fish, Ann. M., died Oct 26, 1852, age 60 yrs.
            Whitney, Orlando, born Sept. 23, 1840, died Mar. 4, 1891.
                      [son of Walter Whitney & Caroline Matilda Disbrow]
            Jelliff, Louis Augustine, son of William B. & Ann E., died Apr. 12, 1836, age 3 yrs. 11                 mos.
            Jelliff, Lovenia Adelaide, daughter of William B. & Ann E., died Apr. 10, 1836, age 2                 yrs 2 mos.
            Platt, Ebenezer, died Apr. 2, 1869, age 67 yrs.
            Platt, John Ebenezer, son of Rev. Ebenezer & Nancy, died Feb. 19, 1832,
            age 11 mos. 3 days.

8552   Wilcoxson, Susan, died Jan. 1, 1832, age 30 yrs. 3 mos.
            Platt, Nancy, wife of Ebenezer, died Aug. 28, 1831, age 35 yrs. 8 mos. 9 days.
            Platt, Charles Dennis, son of Rev. Ebenezer & Nancy, died Feb. 1, 1831,
            age 2 yrs. 11 mos. 1 day.

8561   McIntyre, Elizabeth, daughter of James & Sally, died July 11, 1830, age 4 yrs. 9 mos.
8560   McInyre, James, born Aug. 25, 1799, died Aug. 21, 1834, age 34 yrs.
            Waterbury, Nancy, daughter of Epenetus & Elizabeth, died Sept. 12, 1835,
            age 47 yrs.10 mos. 10 days.

            Waterbury, Elizabeth, wife of Epenetus, born July 2, 1758, died July 23, 1833.
                      [Elizabeth Bates, daughter of Samuel Bates & Ann Morehouse]
            Waterbury, Epenetus, born Sept. 1, 1786, died Sept. 21, 1835.
                      [son of Benjamin Waterbury & Abigail Sherwood]
            McIntyre, Sally, wife of James, daughter of Epenetus & Elizabeth Waterbury,
            born Jan. 8, 1798, died Feb. 8 1858.

            Ayres, Louisa Scofield, daughter of Dr. Chauncey & Deborah A., died July 19, 1842,                 age 1 yrs. 10 mos.
8559   Ayres, Deborah Ann, wife of Chauncey, M.D., died Oct. 20, 1839, age 28 yrs.
            2 mos. 4 days.

                       [Deborah Ann Percival, daughter of Dr. Warren Percival & Sally Street]
            Percival, Samuel Lorin, son of Warren & Sally, died Sept. 30, 1834, age 20 yrs.
            Percival, Warren, M.D., born Apr. 5, 1783, died Oct. 23, 1851.
            Percival, Sally, born Feb. 6, 1790, died Oct 27, 1883.
                       [Sally Street, daughter of David Street & Rhoda Morehouse]
            Bates, Fanny B., daughter of Jerome & Mary [Gray], died Apr. 3, 1828, age 31 yrs.
            4 mos. 21 days.

            Hoyt, William A., son of Darius & Harriet, born Nov. 24, 1809, died Sept. 20, 1828.
            Hoyt, Harriet, wife of Darius, born Mar. 27, 1785, died May 14, 1855.
                       [Harriet Bates, daughter of Jerom Bates & Mary Gray]
            Waterbury, Gilbert G., born July 2, 1792, died Feb. 27, 1856.
                       [son of Polly Waterbury]

            Waterbury, Polly, born May 31, 1765, died Apr. 3, 1834.
                       [daughter of Benjamin Waterbury & Abigail Sherwood]
            Waterbury, Sarah, died Dec. 9, 1832, age 67 yrs.
8541   Jarvis, Hannah, wife of Stephen, died Oct. 4, 1818, age 55 yrs. [Hannah Stebbins]
            Jarvis, Stephen, died Apr. 21, 1822, age 64 yrs.
            Scofield, Elizabeth, wife of Ezra, died Aug. 30, 1852, age 69 yrs. 4 mos. 8 days.
                       [Elizabeth Clock, daughter of Nathaniel Clock & Sarah Howe]
            Scofield, Charles N., died Aug. 31, 1847, age 31 yrs. 7 mos. 7 days.
                       [son of Ezra Scofield & Elizabeth Clock]
            Scofield, Sidney, son of Ezra & Elizabeth, died July 1, 1843, age 25 yrs. 5 mos.
            12 days.

            Allen, Rua Elizabeth, wife of Charles, died Dec. 25, 1840, age 28 yrs. 10 mos.
                       [Rheua Elizabeth Catherine Scofield, daughter of Ezra Scofield
                        & Elizabeth Clock]

            Scofield, Ezra, died Jan. 6, 1864, age 80 yrs. 4 mos. 17 days.
                     [son of Gershom Scofield & Lydia Bell]
            Scofield, Darius K. [Knight], died Mar. 20, 1828, age 31 yrs.
                     [son of Gershom Scofield & Lydia Bell]
            Scofield, Lydia, wife of Gershom, died Oct 19, 1843, age 92 yrs. 11 mos. 3 days.
                     [Lydia Bell, daughter of Jonathan Bell & Lydia Hoyt]
            Scofield, Gershom, died Mar. 10, 1825, age 73 yrs. 10 mos. Flag.
                     [son of Josiah Scofield and Abigail Gorman]
            Scofield, Joshua, died May 13, 1842, age 77 yrs. 8 mos. 7 days.
                     [son of Josiah Scofield and Abigail Gorman]
            Scofield, Hannah, wife of Joshua, died Nov. 12, 1853, age 25 yrs. 27 days.
                     [Hannah Hoyt, daughter of Thaddeus Hoyt and Hannah Holmes]
            Clock, Phebe, wife of Abraham, died Nov. 9, 1825, age 30 yrs. 2 mos. 5 days.
                     [possibly Phebe Scofield, daughter of Jacob Scofield & Hannah Hoyt]
            Clock, Edward Augustus, son of Abram & Phebe [Scofield], died July12, 1843,
             age 23 yrs. 8 mos. 13 days.

8564   Mills, Nancy, daughter of John & Cynthia, died Oct. 14, 1847, age 29 yrs. 5 mos. 29                   days.
            Mather, Sarah, relict of Samuel, died Sept. 24, 1844, age 88 yrs.
                      [widow of Noah Scofield]
8562   Mather, Samuel, died Oct. 22, 1842. age 77 yrs.
                      [son of Moses Mather & Rebecca Raymond]
            Mather, Angeline, daughter of Lewis & Catherine, born Oct. 17, 1838, died
            July 22, 1840.

            Mather, William, son of Samuel & Eliza, died Nov. 6, 1830, age 2 yrs.
            Woolsey, David, died Aug. 4, 1824, age 21 yrs.
                      [son of Gilbert Woolsey & Rhoda Marshall]
            Woolsey, Henry, died Oct 25, 1812, age 19 yrs.
                     [son of Gilbert Woolsey & Rhoda Marshall]
8595   Woolsey, Levina, died Dec. 30, 1801, age 15 yrs.
                     [daughter of Gilbert Woolsey & Rhoda Marshall]
            Woolsey, Louisa, died Nov. 28, 1813, age 4 yrs.
                     [daughter of Gilbert Woolsey & Rhoda Marshall]
            Woolsey, Rhody, wife of Gilbert, died Apr. 24, 1814, age 40 yrs.
                     [Rhoda Marshall, daughter of Abraham Marshall & Lavinia ?]
8587   Woolsey, Gilbert, died July 27, 1845, age 79 yrs.
                     [son of Gilbert Woolsey & Prudence Bates]
8588   Woolsey, Rhody, 2nd wife of Gilbert, died Mar. 26, 1844, age 60 yrs.
                     [Rhoda Hoyt, daughter of Josiah Hoyt & Elizabeth Tuttle]
8597   Raymond, Monson G., [born Sept. 26, 1777] died Oct. 16, 1826, age 49 yrs.
                     [Munson Gould Raymond, son of Samuel Raymond, born January 1, 1751/52]
8574   Blaau, Uriah, died Dec. 29, 1810, age 47 yrs.
            
Morehouse, John Brainard, son of Henry & Cordelia [Whitney], died Sept. 3, 1843,
            age 4 mos. 8 days.

8573   Mather, Moses Selleck, son of Moses & Sally [Bishop], died July 23, 1829,
            age 2 yrs. 11 mos. 8 days.

            Morehouse, Charles Grandison, son of Henry & Lydia [Mather], died Aug. 4, 1829,
            age 3 yrs. 11 mos. 12 days.

            Mather, Nancy, daughter of Moses & Sally [Bishop], died Dec. 26, 1835, age 22 yrs.
            3 mos. 25 days.

8572   Morehouse, Lydia, wife of Henry & daughter of Moses & Sally Mather, died
            Nov. 21, 1840,
age 37 yrs. 16 mos. 21 days.
            Morehouse, William H., son of Henry & Lydia, died Apr. 12, 1863, age 28 yrs.
            1 mo. 9 days.

            Morehouse, Henry, died Mar. 21, 1874, age 70 yrs. 9 mos. 22 days.
            Morehouse, Cordelia, [2nd] wife of Henry, died Nov. 25, 1892, age 82 yrs. 8 mos.
            21 days.

                      [Cordelia Whitney, daughter of Josiah Whitney & Mary Smith]
8570   Bates, Jerome, died Sept. 15, 1839, age 77 yrs.
                      [son of John Bates and Sarah Bostwick]

8567   Bates, Hannah, wife of Jerome, born Mar. 16, 1776, died Dec. 17, 1867.
8571   Bates, Valentine, son of George [George Seaman Bates] & Julia [Wilmot], died
            Sept. 24, 1858,
age 1 yr. 1 mo. 24 days.
8565   Fleet, Susan Townsend, daughter of John J. & Mary E., born 1838, died 1913.
           
Fleet, Mary Elizabeth, wife of John J. & daughter of Jerome & Hannah Bates,
            born Nov. 16, 1815,
died Dec. 5, 1858.
8600   Bates, Walter H., born Oct. 26, 1817, died May 7, 1905.
                      [son of Jonathan Bates & Sally Davenport]
8601  Bates, Deborah Ann, born Mar. 4, 1849, died Aug. 10, 1905.
                      [daughter of Walter H. Bates & Sarah L. Clock]
            Bates, Susan Matilda, wife of Walter H., died Oct. 4, 1880, age 63 yrs. 9 mos.
                      [Susan Matilda Weed, daughter of Luther Weed & Lavinia Hoyt]
            Bates, Jonathan, Esq., died Oct. 31, 1854, age 82 yrs.
                      [son of John Bates & Sarah E. Bostwick]

            Bates, Sally, wife of Jonathan, Esq., died Feb. 17, 1839, age 55 yrs. 11 mos.
           12 days.
 [Sally Davenport, daughter of John Davenport & Prudence Bell]
8579   Rundle, Elizabeth, widow of Phineas, died Oct. 4, 1846, age 80 yrs. 14 days.
                      [Elizabeth Bates, daughter of John Bates & Sarah E. Bostwick]
8577   Bates, Francis, son of Jonathan & Sally, died July 27, 1820, age 11 mos.
            Bates, John, died Nov. 27, 1800, age 85 yrs.
                       [son of Jonathan Bates & Joanna Selleck]

            Bates, Sarah E., relict of John, died Aug. 26, 1813, age 86 yrs.
                     [Sarah E. Bostwick, daughter of David Bostwick & Sarah Nichols]
            Bates, Walter, died Mar. 13, 1842, age 29 yrs.
                     [son of Henry Bates & Frances Quintard]

8576   Bates, Frances, wife of Henry, died Aug. 23, 1844, age 63 yrs.
                     [Frances Blaau (or Quintard)]
            Bates, Henry, died Apr. 30, 1840, age 60 yrs. 10 mos. 16 days.
                    [son of Jonathan Bates & Lydia Scofield]
8575   Bates, Jonathan, died June 1, 1816, age 67 yrs.
                    [son of Jonathan Bates & Hannah DeMill]
            Bates, Lydia, wife of Jonathan, died Apr. 3, 1807, age 54 yrs.
                    [Lydia Scofield, daughter of Josiah Scofield & Abigail Gorham]
            Brown, William, son of Benjamin & Hannah, died Apr. 24, 1815, age 7 yrs.
            3 mos. 9 days.

            Whitney, Mary, daughter of Eliasaph & Angeline, born Oct. 17, 1826, died
            Dec. 7, 1895.

8580   Bates, Henry H., born Oct. 8, 1831, died May 8, 1892.
                      [son of William H. Bates & Sally E. Bates]
8580   Bates, Louise M., wife of Henry H., born Sept 10, 1829, died _______________.
8580   Bates, William L., son of Henry H. & Louise M., born Dec. 12, 1852, died ________.
8581   Bates, Sally E., widow of William H., died Dec. 21, 1880, age 69 yrs. 7 mos. 20 days.
                     [Sally Elizabeth Bates, daughter of Jonathan Bates & Sally Davenport]
8599   Bates, William H. [Henry], died Mar. 24, 1849, age 43 yrs. 6 mos. 3 days.
                     [son of Henry Bates & Fanny Quintard]
8582   Bates, Edwin, died Oct. 12, 1850, age 35 yrs.
                     [son of Henry Bates & Fanny Quintard]
            Darrow, John H., Co. C., 28th Regt. Conn. Vols., born Nov. 29, 1829, died
            July 16, 1863.

8583   Langdon, Gertrude M., daughter of William A. & Harriet, died Aug. 17, 1870,
             age 2 mos. 28 days.

                     [grave moved to Spring Grove Cemetery]
            Bates, Eliza, daughter of Charles A. & Polly, born Apr. 5, 1833, died May 22, 1834.
8536   Bates, Charles A., born Sept. 24, 1807, died July 25, 1889.
                     [son of Jonathan Bates & Sally Davenport]
8536   Bates, Polly Tuttle, [1st] wife of Charles, born Oct. 26, 1806, died Sept. 26, 1851.
8584   Bates, Hannah, wife of Richard, died June 2, 1872, age 75 yrs. 3 mos. 8 days.
8585   Bates, Richard, died Sept. 24, 1882, age 71 yrs. 4 mos.
                     [son of Henry Bates & Fanny Quintard]
Bates Cemetery - 405-12
Christie Hill Road at Leeuwarden Road, Darien, CT


014   Talmadge, Seth, died Aug. 10, 1851, age 44 yrs. 25 days.
               [son of John Talmadge & Sarah Bates]
018   S. T. - footstone
019   Talmadge, Caroline, wife of John Talmadge, died Aug. 5, 1828,
         age 28 yrs. 2 mos.

032   C. T. - footstone
008   Bates, George, son of John & Hannah, died Dec. 28, 1827, age 8 mos.
031   Smith, Elizabeth, wife of Richard, died July 10, 1827, age 46 yrs.
        Weed, John Wm., son of Francis B. & Emeline A., died Apr. 3, 1845,
        age 8 mos. 5 days.

015   Talmadge, Sarah, daughter of John L. Talmadge, died Mar. 12,
        1856, age 9 yrs. 1 mo. 5 days.

024   S. T. - footstone
016   Tallmadge, James H., died Dec. 24, 1848, age 32 yrs. 3 mos. 2 days.
030   Bates, Hannah, wife of John, died Feb. 26, 1833, age 46 yrs.
               [Hannah Lockwood, daughter of Elnathan Lockwood &
                Elizabeth Clason]

029   Bates, John, died Jan. 22, 1848, age 67 yrs. 11 mos. 13 days.
               [son of Gershom Bates and Martha Smith]
036   J. B. – footstone
027   Hustead, Betsey, E., wife of Usuel, died Dec. 10, 1838, age 23 yrs.
        25 days.

               [Betsey Bates, daughter of John Bates & Hannah Lockwood]
035   Bates, Lewis Harvey, died Feb. 21, 1875, age 68 yrs. 11 mos.
               [son of Gershom Bates and Hannah Buckman]
        Tallmadge, John, May 25, 1852 (broken stone)
028   Hoyt, Betsey, widow of Samuel, died Feb. 12, 1845, age 73 yrs.
        10 mos.

               [Betsey Bates, daughter of Gershom Bates & Martha Smith]
037   H. B. – footstone
026   Scofield, Sarah J., died Sept 20, 1856, age 18 yrs. 9 mos.
034   S. J. S. - footstone
025   Bates, George R., died July 25, 1873, age 34 yrs. 4 mos.
               [son of John Bates & Esther Smith Holly]
007   Bates, Samuel, died Aug. 18, 1858, age 50 yrs. 3 mos. 13 days.
               [son of John Bates & Hannah Lockwood]
011   S. B. - footstone
006   Bates, Hannah S., [wife of Samuel Bates] died Nov. 3, 1868,
        age 56 yrs. 10 mos. [Hannah Fairchild]

009   H. S. B. - footstone
017   Weed, Alonzo, son of Francis B. & Emeline A., died June 1, 1846,
        age 2 mos. 8 days.

               [son of Francis V. Weed & Emeline Weed]
 
        001   stone wall
        002   stone wall
        003   wide shot
        004   same wide shot
        005   two stones
        010   illegible footstone
        012   wide shot
        013   wide shot
        020   wide shot
        021   same as 19
        022   wide shot
        023   wide shot
        033   wide shot
        038   illegible footstone
        039   stone wall
        040   sign
        041   sign closeup
        042   sign closer
        043   wide shot
        044   iron gate
        045   debris field
        046   debris field
        047   debris field
        048   debris field



  
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